Crack to Wild has barely launched, and already we’re facing our first legal challenge.
The complainant is my 16-year-old son, Nate. The alleged offense? Unauthorized use of his likeness.
The evidence? A black-and-white photograph I took a couple of years ago in the wilds of West Texas. It’s a sweeping landscape with a dramatic sky, a fence in the foreground, and two tiny figures wandering through an enormous world.
Those figures are Nate and our dog, Roxy. You’d need a magnifying glass, a favorable wind, and possibly DNA evidence to identify either of them.
Nevertheless, Nate recognized himself. And he had a grievance.
“You didn’t get my permission to use that picture.”
Fair point. So I asked. “May I have your permission to use the photograph?”
“Sure.”
And thus concluded the shortest intellectual property dispute in the history of the American legal system.
No attorneys. No mediation. No cease-and-desist letters. No demands for royalties. Not even a cheeseburger. Frankly, I think he needs a better agent.
Roxy, meanwhile, has retained separate counsel. Her representatives are reportedly negotiating an appearance fee payable entirely in bacon.
Now, I should mention that I’m Nate’s mother and legal guardian. Technically, I’ve been signing permission slips on his behalf for sixteen years. But being legally authorized to make a decision doesn’t mean I have (get?) to make every decision for him.
And Nate knows that. Which is probably why he felt perfectly comfortable calling me out.
I love that about him. He wasn’t angry. He wasn’t demanding that I take the photograph down. He simply wanted to be asked.
And when I asked, he said yes. Four seconds. Matter settled.
It struck me afterward how naturally this little exchange fit the philosophy behind Crack to Wild. We spend so much time trying to manage life—directing it, organizing it, deciding what it should become.
But living things have an inconvenient habit of developing their own ideas. Teenagers, especially. They grow opinions. They establish boundaries. They begin exercising a little authority over their own stories.
And if we’ve done our jobs reasonably well, they feel comfortable telling us when we’ve overlooked something. Even something as small as a photograph.
So the picture stays.
Nate has granted permission.
I have retained all maternal rights and privileges, including the right to embarrass him occasionally.
And Roxy’s attorneys are still holding out for bacon.
Welcome to Crack to Wild. Apparently, even our photographs have a little rebellion in them.
Nature. Nurture. Native.
